Some people say blood is thicker than water. What they don’t tell you is that sometimes, blood can drown you. I’m Justin, 26, and I’ve spent most of my life watching my parents choose my sister over me.
When they skipped my wedding for her, my best man turned their absence into something unforgettable. Growing up in Millbrook felt like living under a spotlight that never pointed at me. My sister, Casey, six years older, had a talent for stealing attention—often with suspiciously timed meltdowns.
If I scored the winning goal at my basketball game, she’d suddenly develop a stomachache that required urgent care. When I got accepted to college? Her boyfriend broke up with her that same day.
Every milestone I reached—she turned it into her tragedy. “Justin, you understand, right?” Mom would say, already reaching for her purse. “Your sister needs us right now.”
An upset man standing in a garage | Source: Midjourney
Dad would clap me on the shoulder like I was a Labrador.
“You’re tough, kiddo. You get it.”
I didn’t get it. Not then, not ever.
When I proposed to my girlfriend, Veronica, last spring, I made a decision. I sat my parents down in their kitchen—the one where I’d eaten so many solo dinners while they ran after Casey’s latest catastrophe. “I’m getting married in October,” I said.
“And I need you to promise me something—don’t let Casey hijack this day.”
Mom laughed, that airy, dismissive giggle. “Oh, Justin, don’t be so dramatic. Of course we’ll be there—it’s your wedding!”
Dad leaned back with his arms crossed.
“What’s the big deal? You cut a cake, you dance a little—boom, married!” He laughed like he’d said something wise. “It’s not about being dramatic, Dad.
It’s about you actually showing up. For *me*.”
They exchanged a look—the same tired glance they gave me every time I asked for more than they were willing to give. “We’ll be there, honey,” Mom said, glancing at her phone.
Casey had probably texted. The weeks before the wedding were a slow spiral. Casey started with her usual tactics.
“Pink isn’t my color,” she said at dinner, twirling pasta on her fork. “Dusty rose washes me out.”
A smiling woman wearing a pink blouse | Source: Midjourney
Veronica, ever patient, replied, “You’re not in the wedding party, Casey. You’re just a guest.”
Casey’s smile turned razor-sharp.
“Oh, I know. I just want the pictures to look good, that’s all.”
Mom beamed. “Casey has such good taste, Justin.
She’s just trying to help.”
That was my warning. I just didn’t see it. October 15 arrived, crisp and golden.
I woke up to sunshine and a rare, fragile hope: Maybe today, they’ll choose me first. Arnold—my best man, my brother in all but blood—was already in my kitchen, brewing coffee. “Big day!” he grinned.
I smiled back. “Yeah. I’m ready.”
I was halfway through buttoning my shirt when my phone buzzed with a voicemail from Mom.
I pressed play. “Hi sweetie! So, um, we’re not going to make it today.
Casey found this little lump on Buster’s neck—her dog—and she’s just beside herself. Crying, shaking, the whole thing. The vet can’t see him until Monday, but she’s convinced it’s serious.
We can’t leave her like this. You understand, right? Take pictures!
We’ll see them later!”
The rear view of a smug woman | Source: Midjourney
My hand went numb. The phone slipped. Arnold caught it.
“What did she say?”
I couldn’t speak. But then my phone buzzed again—a text from Casey:
“Told you nothing would change. Some people never learn.
💅”
That’s when something inside me broke. Not loudly. Quietly.
Finally. Like a door locking shut. Arnold read the text and listened to the voicemail.
His jaw clenched. “Are you kidding me?”
“Don’t—” I began. “No,” he snapped.
“Veronica needs to hear this.”
Twenty minutes later, Veronica was in my room, her dress half on, mascara streaked with furious tears. “She really skipped our wedding for a dog?” she hissed. “Arnold, you have my permission—post it.”
“Post what?” I asked.
Arnold looked at me, eyes gleaming. “Trust me.”
The ceremony was beautiful. Veronica’s parents walked her down the aisle.
Her dad whispered in my ear, “You’re our son now. That’s not changing.”
I cried—not for who wasn’t there, but because for the first time, I was the one someone chose. Afterward, we escaped to a remote cabin for our honeymoon—off the grid, no phones, no internet, just us and the silence.
When we returned, my phone lit up like a disaster. 47 missed calls. 63 voicemails.
A man standing on a porch and talking on a cellphone | Source: Midjourney
117 texts. The first voicemail was from Uncle Mike:
“I saw Arnold’s post. I’m ashamed of my sister.
You deserved better.”
Then Aunt Linda:
“That voicemail broke my heart. They always favored Casey. I just didn’t want to believe it.”
Arnold had posted a video—set to music, beautifully edited.
Footage of our wedding. Our vows. Our first dance.
Her parents tearing up. The cake. The joy.
And over the whole video? Mom’s voicemail. “She found this little lump on Buster’s neck…”
Captioned:
“My best friend got married today.
His parents and sister didn’t show up because of a dog. Here’s what they left him.”
The internet did what it does. The video blew up.
2 million views. Thousands of comments. “This is devastating.
That poor groom.”
“How do you do this to your own child?”
“Casey sounds like a narcissist. That voicemail is chilling.”
I got a call from Mom. “Justin!
An upset man talking on a phone | Source: Midjourney
You have to take that video down. Do you know what people are saying about us? About Casey?
She’s being *tagged in memes*!”
I leaned back, exhausted. “Hi, Mom. Nice to hear from you.”
“This isn’t funny!
This is defamation!”
“No, Mom. It’s documentation.”
“You’re humiliating us! We made a mistake, but you’re making it public!”
“The mistake wasn’t missing my wedding.
The mistake was making me believe I ever mattered as much as Casey.”
She hung up. Then Casey called. “You RUINED my life!
Everyone at work saw that video. My boss demoted me! I had to delete my Instagram!”
“I didn’t post it, Casey.
Arnold did. Because he’s tired of watching you treat me like garbage.”
“You’ve always been jealous of me!”
“Jealous?” I laughed. “Of what?
That you needed a dog emergency to steal my wedding day too?”
She was screaming as I ended the call. Dad’s call came last. Quiet.
